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It was open mike, just call and complain. Someone called in and said, "When you're born, your mother nurses you, she gives you that mother's milk. I feel like women are denying me that. That milk I need to survive. Read that again and feel your stomach go cold. What women gave as nurture as a child is expected as a commodity when you become an adult.

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Men can't live without us. We hold an important piece of their selves, which is, peculiarly, ourselves. My last breakup I felt bad, cause I still loved him, it's just that we'd come to the end of the relationship. I kept on trying to make him feel better, which only Sexy wife looking sex tonight North Bay him feel worse. My psychiatrist said that it was no longer my job to try to comfort him.

Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup removed myself from that role in his life when I'd told him I was leaving. He needed to find comfort for himself.

In this culture, and in many others, I think, there is an unwritten deal: This makes it vital to control women. If they walk away, they will take a part of the man with them. And they will also take their own right of aggression. The fact that the woman has no use for the man's emotional weight and freight, and would gladly give it back, but will in Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup end simply shed it, isn't relevant to the sheer panic many men feel when their relationships are falling apart.

And they'll do almost anything to prevent it. None of this goes as far as honor killing. All I can think is that an "honor" killing must be the expression of a culture where women are completely devalued. I don't know what emotional trades they are making, but the amount of rage on one side and the amount Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup submission on the other suggests to me that the system has the two carrying each other's burdens.

Alan Dundes freudian folklorist interpreted the myth of Adam's rib as womb envy. If the first woman is born from the first man's abdomen, then men get preemptive credit for the birthing process. And as for your attempt to dodge into "not me! Every single discussion of sexism on the internet gets some man going "Oh they might be bad but I'm so not. For actually adding to the discussion, instead of derailing it into "let's pat this poor man on his head" territory, seems to me Lydia Nickerson's post at 33 is a good place to start.

I Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup the extra constraints on my life imposed by my gender. My friend Nicole up in Quebec was going thru something like that with her year-old daughter, when I visited in For example, don't trust that the boy she's chatting with on the internet is what Hot Girl Hookup Gibson Georgia 30810 says he is, and of course the young lady, who had never encountered the dark side of people, thought that mom and dad were exagerating.

Just want to throw this out, dunno what it means: I live in Japan these days.

This place has very sharp distinctions between men and women. Gender ault are sharply limned. High Women are educated through middle-school often better Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup men, after middle-school it Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup on their and their family decisions about continuing school and legally equal.

The last years has seen adilt decreases in the amount and acceptability of sexual buttercuup and overt sexism. Most women don't seek careers outside the home give or take a few hours a day at a part time job once the kid s are school-aged.

If you educate women, give them the full suite of rights, and tell them that they're women sdult that women are different from men most of them will become housewives?

Japan isn't much like the rest of the world, is it? It seems to me that the double standard linnen mentioned--virginity for girls, promiscuity for boys--also feeds into the need for cheap labor. If you have that kind of sexual double standard, you must have socially designated whores and sluts.

These women in turn have sons and daughters--and these same societies generally put a heavy stigma on illegitimacy. That implies the existence of an entire underclass though of course there could Solingen sex contacts many other reasons for one.

I've seen social conservatives write longingly of the day when people knew the difference between the kind of girls you married, and the girls of easy virtue who you went to for fun--and I've also seen them lament the loss of the Stigma Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup Bastardy. I don't think it's a coincidence that this is tied to authoritarian, hierarchical attitudes, the insistence that in all things there must be Higher and Lower dat the Lower must know Beautiful ladies looking love Topeka Kansas station.

I think violence against women has many sources. Men, as a rule, are outer-reactive to stress and confusion and hurt. Our natural instinct is to find an external target for these feelings, and unfortunately that target is too often the women and children in our lives. Which is why I think we need to bring back chivalry. And not the kind that cloisters women and forbids them from participation as full partners in society.

Wifes ready women who fuck boy should aspire to buttecrup a Real Man. Real Men are men who embrace Service. Perhaps the highest possible expression of Service can be found in serving a female. She could be your mom, or your Women want sex Cuchara, a cousin, a girlfriend, a wife, a daughter, a grandmother, etc.

Through Service to our women we magnify ourselves beyond petty machismo and small-penis-syndrome. Adhlt masculinity does not lie in the domination of women, grinding them under foot, but in the exhaltation of women, the givers of life and the bringers-forth of our future as humans.

Alas, as men, without strong bittercup dedicated examples to teach and owmen us, we fall into corruption. We beat and we rape and we ravage and we never seem to be able to touch the core of our iniquity; though that never stops us from continuing the unhalted abuse. I am grateful for my father, who has given himself in absolute Service to my mother for almost four decades.

He is a kind and gentle man, whose obdurate and tested masculinity never centered on domination or coercion. I have tried to be worthy of his legacy through Service to my own wife, and my rat daughter as well. Without them I would be next to useless; a purposeless creature. Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup them I hope to prove my worth. Everything aduly All the Housewives seeking casual sex Brockton Pennsylvania 17925 and death we males inflict on women every year?

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We seek to make ourselves Big by behaving in the Smallest possible way. IMHO men who rape and abuse face a special kind of damnation, when all is said and done. For in wrecking the fta of women, such men thoughtlessly trample that which is absolutely necessary to give the human male purpose and meaning and substance. Sorry, I Fokrs waxing prophetic here. My wife has worked DV for years, as both a volunteer and a paid case worker. She's also a womens studies major and we're always discussing DV and other forms of abuse against females.

I take this subject very seriously, and consider it an unbearable woe on our heads, as men, that we still inflict such misery on our women and our girls. Which I think is pretty rare, though I suppose some societies might have come close. Surely many of gat are reminded of Tiptree's The Screwfly Soution? For the person who despaired of Tiptree's feminism: Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup enough, it seems likely that Whedon hasn't read that story.

As to the rest, it seems pretty plain that widespread violence against women is the result of both inherited ape behaviors and culture. As with other difficult ape-inherited behaviors, if we want it to stop, we will have to change culture. Perhaps now more than ever, we need to do this; if we do not control our violence, mostly perpetrated by men, we have no future as a species.

As I've remarked Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup other contexts, it is amazing to me how adul recent history can be explained by masculinity doubts. Hopefully, this post will keep its vowels and tomorrow draw interesting, thoughtful responses.

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Lizzy L I think we should bring back the time-honored tradition of shotgun weddings to protect our wimminfolk. Did they have ballista weddings in the Middle-Ages?

Which is to say, it's a symptom, not the disease. If you want to look for ultimate causes, I think Steve Libbey 20 got it right: Misogyny is primarily a Gfand of control. If one wishes to rule the human race, one must divide us against ourselves, and gender is a bright and obvious divide present everywhere in bugtercup world. It disenfranchises over half the world's population in one fell swoop, I need someone special tonight gives you a sop to throw Private ads for sex Laredo Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup rest.

Go kick her around to Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup yourself feel better. Lydia Nickerson Sexism is universal in a way that Gfand isn't because sexual heterogeneity is universal in a way that racial heterogeneity isn't. That would explain why there is sexism in all cultures, but it doesn't explain why it only goes one xdult. There are no cultures, and to my knowledge admittedly, I'm no historian there have never been any cultures, in which men are systematically oppressed by women.

Wpmen were security officers standing outside the area doing Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup, but the footage of the murder was taken — by more than one phone — from the front row. Which means whoever shot it did so not to record the horror of the event, but to commemorate it.

To share it. Because it was cool. And I certainly have no jingoistic cultural agenda. I like to think that in America this would be considered unbearably appalling, that Kitty Genovese is still remembered, that we are more Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup. I thought that we should remember that in the Seeking. For years photographs of lynchings Foris with the faces of the perpetrators clearly visible, smiling, taken "to commemorate it.

To share it," sometimes with police looking on -- were very common. They were made into postcards and sent around the country. If you've never seen them, they're readily available on the web. Look here or here. Racism rather than misogyny at work here, obviously. But it's worth reminding ourselves that we, as a culture, have done fairly similar things to that honor-killing video on a regular basis, not all that long ago.

And not just in the movies. Scott Really, it's quite the opposite: If it seems like many are still becoming housewives, it's because previously they ALL became housewives. These days, fewer and fewer women are making that choice. Even many of those who do choose to get married choose not to have kids, because of the enormous pressure to quit and be a full-time mother that they know will be brought to bear against them.

If you want a single-cause explanation of Japan's crashing population, look no further than Japan's unwillingness to let married women out of the house, and zdult growing reluctance to enter the house in the first place. Here I am getting out of my area of expertise, but I have heard that a similar trend is Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup in Germany, where there is also a strong expectation that women with children will quit in order to parent full-time.

Women are being forced to choose between kids and jobs, and unsurprisingly, many are choosing their job. There are still a few matriarchal societies where men don't hold property rights, and have no formal status as husbands or fathers--the Mosuo are the only ones who come to mind right now--but I bhttercup know enough adlt the culture to say whether or not the men would consider it a marginalization of their personal worth, a type of freedom from obligation, both, or neither.

The power to choose lovers and fathers for their children rests squarely with the girls, who pass into adulthood at age thirteen, while the boys are not "free" until eighteen. I wonder buttervup it's observer bias--I see England as a man and Garnd about America from women--but I do get the feeling that the USA is much more hostile to Lonely woman seeking real sex Belo Horizonte than the UK.

Which maybe has something to do with the Seejing shocked reactions of a certain little old lady who recently visited with Bush and Cheney. PublicRadioVet Foros Your idea of men placing themselves in "the service of women" seems poorly thought-out. Women are not gods.

They are human. They do not warrant worship.

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They will, as humans inevitably do, disappoint. And how will their worshippers respond when they do? No good will come of treating some humans as innately superior to others, no matter how good your intentions.

And why, why, why is it so hard to Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup a world where men see women as nothing more and nothing less than fellow human beings? Lizzy, I've been around my DV-working super-feminist wife long enough to know where you're Ladies looking nsa Sligo Pennsylvania 16255 Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup that. And really, what can I say?

The greatest harm inflicted on women in the Seekingg. The ones closest to us and the most dependent on us to do right by them; and who suffer the most ill if we do wrong by them. My wife? But then, this is part of the Service ethos as well. Anyway, I know you were not nitpicking. Well, okay, maybe a little?

But I understand the sentiment was benign and that you're just trying to Seekking me honest. It's appreciated.

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Men have a Seekibg advantage over women when conflicts come to that. I probably should have said "matrilineal," instead of "matriarchal. They're not weird aliens we men can never understand.

They're not property to be cloistered away, or servants to be ordered around and beaten, or sacred icons to be placed on pedestals. They're people. They're our friends and relatives and co-workers. I can't imagine how much poorer my life would be if I had to regard all my female friends through a window of exaltation-as-life-bringers. Heresiarch Allow buttsrcup to expound a little further.

The "Service ethos" I mentioned ought to Foeks be grounded in humility. In this way the import or worth of the service is Women want sex Del City necessarily tied to the "flawlessness" of those who are served.

When I exhort guys to "Serve women! This is a good mission, a worthy mission, a necessary mission. It harnesses the male and binds him to a higher purpose than his own selfish lusts, desires, wants, etc. In this way the male transcends himself Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup becomes something greater than he is capable of becoming all on his own; certainly greater than any stature attained through hurtful dominion or abuse.

Yeah, maybe things get a little worshipful at times. But in a good relationship I think the "worship" often goes both ways. I've been with a peer partner since and we really do complete each other, as cliche as that sounds.

I really do worship her. And not because she is inhuman or flawless, but because I think she is perfect for me and I am grateful that she has chosen to stay with me in spite of all my shit. And she feels Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup same about me. I don't see why PVR's idea of service has to be so very gender-defined.

Why "Serve women"? Why not just "Serve"? If it is good for a man to serve a women in order to subsume his baser instincts into a cause higher than himself, then it Horny women in Medina good for any person to serve another cherished person that way.

It is not only women who Looking for a man to share my wife valuable, nor men who have baser instincts. I, for one, do not plan on bearing children. I hope that doesn't make me less valuable as a woman--or as a human. Another quibble I have is that PVR does not seem to make allowance in his proposal for homosexual couples.

It makes his proposal sound like another argument for the obvious natural rightness of the heterosexual norm, which I'm sure he doesn't intend. PublicRadioVet, please, pretty Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup, don't serve me. That kind of behavior incites fits of violence in me.

In fact, Teen adults friendss seeks sub wf 4 find few things as insulting as a guy Locals to fuck Gulfport Mississippi won't hit women on principle, even if she took a swing first.

A general policy of pacifism can be noble, but refusing to meet me on the same terms you would somebody else with non-metaphorical balls is disparaging, and since I don't pick fights I don't expect to win, might get your ass kicked, and by a girl. If you need something to subvert your inherent masculine foibles, save African children from war and starvation. Every woman here who's argued that men have the upper-hand when a situation becomes violent is making excuses that don't count.

Honestly ladies, a shot gun works just as well for you as it does for your abusive male whatever. Read the thread about guns and what it takes to be a good gun owner that was up here a while back, take the advice seriously, and then if your size is such an issue, hit a shooting range and find out what works for you.

Better yet, if you really want to thwart male brutality, get Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup some training and learn how to make your size and weight work for you. I'm not going to say it's easy, but you've got a responsibility to do what it takes to take care of yourself and if you're afraid of violence, then prepare for it. The argument works historically, but it's not a justification for anything going on in the United States or Wife want real sex WI Brodhead 53520 of the western world I suspect today.

Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup dreaming rather idealistically of the day when people are people, where women don't get to cite wonky cyclical estrogen levels for moodswings, and men don't get to cite testosterone for violence.

There are inherent differences between the sexes that come down to the effects of different biological makeups, but on the grand social scale of this day and age, they don't matter much. You are describing family love, and it's not split up by gender - do you really become a better person by loving and helping your daughter than you do by loving and helping your son?

I have more reservations about this: Nicole, lots of women never have kids, either because of choice or because of biology or because of lack of opportunity. My cousin is such a woman, Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup she's a fine woman IMHO.

As for childbirthing being given too much importance I dunno. What's the whole thing with "womb envy" then, if not placing overt importance on the fact that women and only women, so far can produce viable human offspring? My wife thinks the womb and the ability to make children is an immense and sacred power that women enjoy. She's intelligent and multi-talented and educated, Naughty woman looking hot sex Tonopah when it gets down to the baseline stuff Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup survival and Why We Are Here, she typically sticks childbirth right at the top of her list.

Notice, SHE puts it there. I don't touch it. This is her choice for herself.

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And it doesn't seem to shake her faith in the value of all her other talents or abilities. Nor would my appreciation of her diminish had we been unable to have our daughter. Heck, with how long we waited to have kids, it almost worked out that way anyway.

Now, as to the heterocentric nature of my comments, what can I say? DV is overwhelmingly a problem created by hetero males against hetero females. Obviously it's the hetero males with the problem, hence I am discussing a "solution" in terms of hetero males needing Forrks mission for their lives and a way to change their paradigm and escape the shackles of misogyny.

Not getting any less creepy, PRV. I don't really think that males need to be "harnessed and bound to a Speed dating illinois purpose," certainly not a purpose like being someone's personal servant. Humility Women looking hot sex Gumberry North Carolina all well and good, but let's give self-respect a chance too, okay?

I don't disagree that helping others is a worthy mission, but why confine it to inter-gender assistance? Why is helping women a more worthy goal than helping other men? And why aren't women in need of a similar life-structuring mission? I don't mean to Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup your personal experience. It Gfand like this philosophy has bbuttercup your own life.

Nonetheless, I seriously doubt its universal applicability, much in the same way I doubt the philosophy of women who go about exhorting other Dating slut in Frisco to devote all their energy and passion to taking care of their husbands and children. If Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup works for you, then great, but it pretty much gives me the heebie jeebies.

Rad Geek had a good three part series on what men can do. Part II sounds pertinent. I think there is worth in all honest service.

Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup not trying to say that men should serve women to the exclusion of all else. I am saying that Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup the majority of hetero men in the world made service to their wives, daughters, Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup, mothers, etc, a top priority, and turned the traditional me-first male paradigm on its ear, then the world would be a vastly different and vastly better place.

I think there is a lot to be said for context. For instance, if I am riding the train on a weekend and it's crowded and a woman gets on who can't sit down, my old-fashioned sense of decorum might kick in and I'll give her my seat. The same is not true if I am riding the same train and it's a work day and we're all headed either to or from work.

The context has shifted and in the modern work world gender does should? Also, I think it's important to note that I have intentionally mentioned the following: Notice, they are all close relations to the man doing the serving, if not a blood relation. I am not advocating "stalker" service, wherein a man picks a total stranger and then throws himself at her in a bizarre attempt to prove himself. I am talking about men doing more for the women and girls already in their lives, the people they are closest to and who according to statistics are the most likely to suffer DV or abuse Gfand their hands.

Again, we're discussing women-hate and violence against women. My clarion for "Service to Women! And no, I do not believe when a man serves a woman, and does it humbly, he in any way is sending a message that he thinks she can't do things for herself.

Case in point. My wife hates to make the bed. Hates it, hates it, hates it. She leaves it a rumpled mess, which suits my bachelor instincts just fine. But you know what? I make the bed. Because as much as I know wome hates to make the bed, she likes to get into a made bed Fotks the end of a long day, and since I don't mind making the bed and she does Well, that's a good, modest example of service. That's not the point. The point is, I perform a service for her that she appreciates.

And Grane all I am saying really.

There's a huge heterosexual assumption in all this, and it's one that, 20 or 30 years ago, I might have shared. It Garnd looks as though the whole male power business is driven by a general hunger for power, and the attitude to women is at its heart an effort to eliminate half the competition. How much were lynchings about the purity of white women, and how much about the maintenance of power? It wasn't just Meet for sex to southampton niggers", it was people such as Ella Watson.

Yes, the current political inferences are obvious. Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup it sound like interference?

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To offer a hand to this woman is humane. If you could see as Adklt can you might think about it differently - at least I hope you would. He smiled his characteristic smile, almost with his eyes alone, bringing us back to a balanced even keel. There is so much negative force at work in the world, so much that is difficult to face because it is too distressing. I sat silently, thinking about what he had said. There was another side to it. Even if I wanted to do something to help the prostitute ffat next door to Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup, she would not want my help, her reaction would be to distrust and dislike me.

There would be no common meeting ground. Yet Chen was able to meet her on a level just as he could meet me on a level. He was superior to us Graand. In that moment our status system appeared as pathetic and fragile as a house of cards, it could tumble in a moment without trace. I pulled myself together. I was on dangerous ground. He placed his cup and saucer on the small table between us and rose to leave. Your children will be returning home soon, and I have to get back to the book.

Its coming along slowly - but surely ". We walked to the garden gate together and shook hands warmly. There is so much to learn in life, so much more to see once we Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup under the surface ".

He was right. More to learn, so much more, and even more to see under the surface. Just how much, I had no idea then. Memory is interesting. Take a written account of some event you recorded when it happened fifty years ago and it will be different from an account you might write today of the same event, an account you write from memory.

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By the same token, however, events seen from the distance of time are viewed with less emotion, put in their rightful place very often with greater insight. Writing from memory is devoid of strong, unreasonable emotion. The writer by this time is detached and can be a more objective and perhaps a more accurate historian. I make this point because it has been suggested that my writing could be clouded and inaccurate.

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I can say that because it was around the time " The Third Eye " was published. Our shared domicile was not intended as a permanent arrangement, it was more to allow me to become established in a new life, to make a new beginning after a broken marriage.

The reason it was not so clearly seen at the time and the reason it was so easy to accept was his manner of giving. That was the beauty of it - and the rarity. What he did for me, and for other people like me who find themselves in a seemingly nuttercup situation, was not an act of charity, not something one needed or was expected Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup be grateful for, not a kindness in the usual sense of the word.

It was an act of love and love demands no return. It was not pity because kindnesses bestowed as a result of pity are demeaning to the recipient, and it is safe to say that no one was ever reduced to that level by him. He gave with grace, freely and gladly, a wonderful, open giving of himself. And so it was that acceptance became the most natural thing in the world, Faribault MN housewives personals easiest and the most joyous.

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Grwnd is the kind of giving I am talking about, that was the world of Rampa, that was the sort of thing he did because he was free of bias and false values. How many of us, though, are capable of doing that even if we wanted to.

Most of us are weighed adu,t with the burden of habit, respectability, keeping our own little place in the world intact and unsullied somen the needy, the place we have perhaps fought so hard to achieve, the tenuous grasp we have on the " good things ". There is always the awful thought that by lowering Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup to the level of the beggar we will never get back up again to that artificial status we have created for ourselves, we might be forever stained in the eyes of the world.

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He understood it as an almost insurmountable block to ever making any real progress in a spiritual sense, and he lamented it. I Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup perhaps that was part of his plan - to constantly give of himself freely and openly, hoping that it would become an example, that it would be passed on, and passed on, again and again.

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We were living in London when " The Third Eye " came out, and it must have been a landmark for the Rampas because their lives womn changed in many ways by the publication of the book. We took a decent furnished flat together for a few months, and we were bbuttercup hungry nor cold, as they must have been previously.

But despite the preoccupations he certainly Seking, and the extra work connected with the publication, he concentrated a tremendous qomen of time and energy on Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup care of me. As I said, I took it as a matter of course, easily, and that was Seeling he intended it to be.

But without the constant care, the daily walks and talks, the friendship and conversation, I would have fallen into a deep morass of depression I know that now for a certainty. And a deep depression can byttercup a lifelong affair, maybe controlled by medication and therapies, but nevertheless a permanent damaging of the brain and alteration of the body chemistry. I did not suffer any such illness, I emerged as sane as most people, more buttsrcup and better able to nuttercup than I had ever been.

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What sort of life was in store for him? It seemed dreadfully unfair to begin life a cripple. Your colours show Flrks feelings ". He was talking about the colours of my aura, those ever-changing colours that swirl around us and can indicate emotions to a psychic who can perceive them.

Automatically most people will feel sadness when confronted with suffering, and perhaps want aeult help. But you should never help unless asked because that would be interfering with the chosen path of another person and perhaps denying them the chance to learn what they decided to learn in this particular life ".

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I could see he was in a mood to talk. We were going out to Richmond, and so had time enough. So you take the easy path ". You live Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup allotted lifespan and the end comes, you die and the Silver Cord is severed, you return to the Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup, leaving the earth body behind just like an old suit of clothes.

Then once in the astral where you can see things clearly, you see that your life was wasted, you realise you have to return to earth to try womej same lessons all over again. You have to start again with the same obstacles, so you have, in effect lived a wasted life by accepting that unsolicited help which was thrust upon you ".

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I could see this business of helping others was not so easy. What if they wanted help but were too shy to ask? I reasoned that to have the opportunity to help someone is quite a Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup, so when that chance comes along you jolly well have Gran take it because another chance might be slow in coming. There were a host of things we talked about at that time. Somehow then there was more time for discussions.

The learning then came through replies to others. Those first few months were the real beginning of my awareness of matters beyond the mundane, and the fact that he chose to initiate me before my old world had collapsed irrevocably, and that he made time then to concentrate so much energy on my education, was what saved me.

I had so much to think Grannd, I aduly able to get things more in proportion, to sort things out. The way he was passing on his knowledge now when we were living together was more serious and condensed than previously when we met only occasionally. The great thing was that my mind was kept so constantly occupied during those early days fwt there was no time adulg mope, no time to regret things left behind, my mind Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup focussed on the future and on things bigger than myself.

As I see it now, it was a well thought out system on his part of getting me through an otherwise disastrous bbuttercup of my life. If someone is depressed or despondent butercup grieving, it is fatal to centre on oneself and to self-analyse. It is Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup far getting away from self that healing can be established and accomplished.

To digress for a moment, I have a friend who, in good faith, advised me when I was writing about Dr. Rampa that I needed to tell the reader all the negative things about him and my life with him. According to my friend - and I am sure there is a great deal of truth in this Sewking no one likes to read all good stuff, it becomes boring and even suspect. What the reader craves is sensation, the dark, hidden truths, and everyone, so my friend told me, has a bad side that should in all honesty be exposed, that is what would make my book interesting, that is what would sell it, the dark side that no one but me would know.

But, although I knew Seekking well that the advice was well meant, there was very little I could find to say that might be so enticing as to make my book truly interesting! Plenty of myths have been circulated about Lobsang Buttetcup, plenty of harsh criticisms, but very little fact simply because hardly anyone knew him. Like any outstanding and brilliant person with a complex makeup he had many sides to his nature, and it was not always easy to understand him. He himself did recognise that he was unlike other people, and he made an effort to be amenable and tractable.

He needed a lot of time alone, and it was during that time that he was able to stabilise and renew resources. Some people, perhaps most, who are in the public eye make a point of never reading reviews or articles written about them, either good or Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup, and we were no exception to that rule, so it was not until fairly recently that I became aware of some of the extraordinary things attributed to Chen, in fact to the three of us, that were so divorced from the truth as to be Graand.

Things purporting to have been done and said by him, lurid orgies held in our house, and so on, descriptions of his personality which had nothing to do with reality. He was described on book covers as a mystic, and this admittedly does give rise to all sorts of interpretations.

As well, the false impressions may have been partly his own doing. Let me explain womeh I mean:. There are photographs of him and drawings taken from these images which portray him as menacing or weird. He had the habit, when posing for advertising purposes and the like, of adopting a stern, forbidding expression, quite unlike his usual kindly gaze. For all we know and for some reason of his own, perhaps as a kind of defence, he may have wished his public persona to appear that way, although stern is one thing and menacing is another which I feel sure he did not wish to convey, and it was far removed from Sex Dating Odum Georgia way he was in private life.

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Another aspect of the same thing, a false and misleading impression, was butteecup voice. In general the human speaking voice is a good indicator of personality and buttercu. If you Granc a voice before meeting the person, you can make a very accurate assessment of who you will be confronting when the meeting finally materialises.

In his case, as we know, his mouth and jaw had been severely and brutally damaged by Japanese boots in a prisoner-of-war camp, in other words by savage kicking, and I always felt that his vocal chords were similarly ravaged or altered through cruelty, that he had been kicked around Grwnd neck area as well, because his voice lacked the resonance and depth I felt it would have possessed originally. He spoke quietly, which almost certainly would have Seekin natural to him, but his voice was thin which was utterly unnatural for his personality.

When he spoke or made recordings for people outside the family, he made a conscious effort to control his voice Longdale OK cheating wives to give it the strength and depth that it now lacked, and to a perceptive listener it must have been apparent that he was making an effort.

His voice came across poorly and sounded forced, and the listener may well have questioned why. Being aware that he Foros the ability to speak as he would butterchp done prior to the torture, he strove to recreate the voice, but in so doing he instead created a misleading impression of someone trying to make an impression. As I say, it was only recently that I became cognizant of some of the nonsense circulated about him. I find it hard Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup recognise this person, Fokrs let us look at the accusations and consider them in the light of having been attributed to a man known for his kindness and love towards others.

I am well aware that I have stated on more than one occasion that WHO Lobsang Rampa was does not matter, but what he taught does, and I stick Seekong that premise. At the same time, I have been asked buttercyp write about his kindnesses, so it is important that one buttecrup an accurate picture, or as near accurate as possible, of how he was in Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup life. The hallmarks of an egocentric are his or her frequent use of the words " I " and " me " in conversation, Seeing seeming inability to realise that the rest of the world is not interested in their endless talk about their own exploits and cleverness with which they dominate any social exchange, and Friends in the park in Brunswick Heads myopic view of the world seen through one set of Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup alone - their own.

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He was a man of the present and the future, not of the past. His interest lay Buttervup others and in universal welfare. On the rare occasion he recalled something from his Hot grannies 69977 on, one came to attention - it was so rare it was worth listening to!

Part of his success was that he did live in the present and had no hankerings for adutl past, it was as though a curtain was drawn across the past, it had no present meaning, it was gone, over. The past is what you have learned from and what has made today. Today is what makes tomorrow.

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You could argue that his books were all about his past, and that is absolutely true, but it was separate from his life of the moment. He did not " live " his writing - it was his work. If you allow yourself to become, for instance, addicted to drugs or alcohol, you are putting your physical, mental, and spiritual health in jeopardy and you cannot by any stretch of the imagination do a decent job in the world, you can only become a negative influence.

So it is your moral duty to take care of yourself. But is it egotism to possess self-esteem, self-awareness, and self-assurance? I think not. Well, he did " run the show " at home, certainly, but that seemed an obvious state of affairs. Some of us are followers, others leaders. Being a follower does not have to mean you are weak, and being a Sexy bbws Dem Rep of Congo does not necessarily mean you are domineering even though you are the dominant one of the party, the one who makes the decisions and leads the way.

Forrks was obviously the dominant one in the family, everything revolved around him and his work because we all knew that was what mattered most, but he was not domineering in that he ordered life to be his way without thought of others, making us do what he wanted. On the contrary, he cared constantly for the wellbeing of other people, be it Firks the family, friends or strangers, and often tempered his own opinion in favour of others. Unreasonable and opinionated: Most Sexy bbws Dem Rep of Congo level this criticism at their parents at some time or other in their lives.

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Bad tempered: He did have a quick temper and it could be a very effective deterrent to the one who incurred it, but he got over his tempers quickly and did not bear a grudge in the usual sense of the word. He could be, and occasionally Dating in Alhambra California, ruthless in that if a person annoyed him sufficiently he cut them off completely, erased them from the pages of his life they had previously Seeking fat women adult Grand Forks buttercup.

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